How to rediscover love in your relationship

Has your relationship gone stale? Do you need to reconnect with your partner and rediscover that loving feeling? You loved each other once and it is possible to do so again. Let’s look at some ways you can re-ignite your feelings, engage your emotions, and rediscover love.

Remember the days

Relationships have their ups and downs, and life often throws out curveballs that can cause difficulties. You might have young children or have grown apart due to work issues. Whatever has made your relationship stale can be fixed. It just needs a little effort and a way to reconnect.

Remember the early days of your relationship when you had your first feelings of passion and excitement at being together. Try to recreate these by doing something you did in the early days. Rediscover love by going out to that favorite restaurant, staying a night in your favourite hotel, or visiting one of the places you used to go that hold great memories for you.

The art of seduction

Sometimes we don’t feel in the mood to rediscover love. You want to get closer to your husband or boyfriend, but life seems too busy or full of other demands. You need to schedule alone time together. Get a babysitter, cancel those extra shifts, and pick an evening where you can rediscover love.

Set the mood by cooking or ordering in your favourite meal. Dim the lights and put on some music that you both enjoy. Leave the TV off and just enjoy each other’s company. You might like to run a bath or share a shower to add to the sensuality of the evening. Light candles in your bathroom. Scents like rose, jasmine, and sandalwood will help to create a romantic atmosphere.

Talk to one another

When was the last time you talked, really talked, to one another? Sometimes our relationships just get by with day-to-day stuff and we miss the connections we made talking about what we really feel and what we really want from our relationship. Rediscover love by checking in with each other on a regular basis.

Instead of just talking about the daily chores, make a point of asking your partner how he feels. Is there anything you could help him with? What plans could you make for the future? Often, as relationships progress, future plans get lost in a haze of everyday life.

Make plans together again, even if it’s just when to have your alone time or where you could go on a date night. Once you start communicating at a deeper level again, love will follow.

By remembering the early days, setting the mood for seduction and talking to one another again, you can rediscover love. Take time to be a couple again, and it will improve your relationship, making you both happier and more fulfilled.