Internet and kids: finding a balance

Technology may be a scientific advancement but it is quickly becoming a social step backwards. The internet and kids are not an ideal mix. Children and adults are relying too much on computers and the internet for their interactions and less on true relationships.

Kids need to learn the benefits of computers and technology while finding a balance and staying safe in the virtual world. Parental guidance will help children properly navigate the internet and all it has to offer. With a few tips, parents can help children be internet savvy as well as set up usage boundaries inside the home.

Set a good example

Kids learn from their parents. While children may not always do what they are told, they are more likely to model what they see. Parents should make it a point to limit computer and technology around children.

Specific times of the day, especially family times like dinner should be technology free times. This may sound easy to do but parents are likely to lapse if they get a phone call or hear they have a text. It is important to stay committed to the no technology family time, no matter how tempting it is to pick up your phone.

Children will learn the importance of communication within the family. Conversation skills are first learned at home and the dinner table is the best place to teach these skills.

Limit time and location

Staying cautious and safe on the internet is critical. There are too many opportunities for kids to develop unhealthy friendships online. The internet needs to be seen as a learning tool and not a social outlet.

Parents can better monitor what their children are doing by limiting time and ensuring the computer or device is always in an open area. No children should be allowed to have unfettered internet access in their bedrooms.

This leads to unchecked internet usage and a greater risk to your kids. Limiting time also makes it more likely that your child will not just browse the internet but will use it properly.

Talk to your kids

Parents underestimate the power of communication with a child. Take the time to sit and discuss the positive and negative aspects of the internet. Teach them that it is a great tool to help them learn and keep up with the technological advancements in society today.

Yet it is also important to make them aware of the dangers of internet predators, online addictions, and the many other aspects that could become a detriment to your kids. The internet and kids can exist cohesively.

If children are knowledgeable about the dangers of the internet, are monitored, and understand the importance of real relationships, the internet can be a safe and productive place to find information.