The do’s and don’ts of dating
Going on a first date has always been one of the most complex aspects of starting a new relationship, it’s such a nerve wrecking experience for most people. It’s a time when you are getting to know someone, to see if you’re compatible enough to start a serious relationship. It’s a chance to make the best first impression you can, so if you’re really interested in this guy, make it a good one!
The do’s of dating
This varies for everyone, because everyone likes different things, but there some universal guidelines you should follow. On a first date, it is especially important to be very attentive to your date and keep eye contact. You don’t want to be eating dinner and looking around the restaurant to see what else in on the menu! This is disrespectful to your date, and just like you, they deserve your attention and respect.
On your first date it’s always good to meet in a public place, it makes it safer, and more relaxed, for both people involved, but especially for girls. Plan your date in advance instead of making it up at the last minute. Make a plan and stick to it, but be open to other suggestions if it falls through. Act like a lady, but be yourself, it’s good to have a little sense of humor, and make jokes to put each other at ease. This does not mean you can’t talk about a heavy topic! If you heard something interesting, and want to discuss it, go ahead and you’ll be able to get an idea of how the other person thinks.
The don’ts of dating
The don’ts of dating may be more important than the do’s. If you do one of these things you may turn off your date, so be cautious, or you might not get a second chance! Do not be distracted from your date, turn off your cell phone, and keep eye contact. Try not to talk about your ex-boyfriends, or previous bad relationships. Do not act like you’re Miss-know-it-all, this can be very annoying too, it’s good to make your point, and agree to disagree on things you don’t see eye-to-eye on. Intellectual arguments are good, if you state your case them without insulting the other person.
A very important thing to avoid is uninvited physical advances, a lot of people are not open to getting physical on a first date; it’s disrespectful, so keep your hands to yourself! And lastly, avoid drinking too much alcohol, never go so far that you stop feeling comfortable.
Goibg on a date can be a deadly boring experience, or a fun and safe adventure if you act right. Most of the time just being yourself helps you get that second date. There is nothing more disturbing than someone who is faking it and trying too hard. Remember that dating is about getting to know each other, so open up your brain and just state what you think, joke around, and eat some great food!
